Have you ever met someone so stuck in their own sorrow you can't stand it?
Like all they focus on is the bad in life and whatever little thing happened to them this week.
I feel a bit embarrassed mentioning it because I've been that way before. Hiding in my cave, refusing to see anything but anguish. At some point your spirit breaks, and you give in to depression. The people that refuse to move past this point in their lives irk me. At some point you should learn to move past all the bullshit life has handed you. Sometimes it's time to stop being sad and start being awesome.
If you do nothing but sit alone in the dark weeping, nothing will ever get better. Don't focus on the past so much. Or life's problems. Live for a moment. A moment where you can smile and relax for a second. If you collect enough of these tiny moments life doesn't start to hurt so bad. You're just waiting for your next moment. Or you can take a different approach and totally cash in. New job, new city, new everything. Sometimes you just need a restart.
Just say "Fuck it."
You can change what you can, but sometimes life deals you a shitty hand.
Get used to it and keep placing your bets.
You'll never win anything folding every hand.